No one looks forward to the day they need to tell a parent, or
both parents, that it is probably time to stop driving. Even if
their driving skills have become dull and dangerous, no one wants to
tell an older person they should no longer drive, or that their
driving abilities have reached a point that they are possibly
putting themselves, and others, at risk when driving. No one wants
to have to take that freedom away from them.
However, confronting an older driver, whether the older driver is a
parent, a grandparent, or even an aunt or uncle, always climbs near
the top of the list of family concerns at some point, and older
drivers do not always understand that their family members are
simply concerned about their safety.
One way to ease your family concerns about older drivers is to help
prevent, or at least slow down, the deterioration of their driving
skills. Before you jump the gun and start reaching for the keys
before the older driver even starts showing signs of deteriorating
driving skills, allow the older driver to practice driving. Keep an
eye on him or her, and watch for what may be signs of weakening
driving skills. If you seen any, offer to take a drive with the
older driver, and help him or her strengthen those driving skills.
Also consider contacting your automotive insurance company. Many
automotive insurance companies have programs designed to help
re-teach, or sharpen, the driving skills of older drivers. These
programs are beneficial not only to older drivers who may be losing
their touch, but also to older drivers who simply want to stay on
top of the game, so to speak. Automotive insurance companies offer
these programs in order to help keep everyone drivers, passengers,
and pedestrians alike safe on and near the roads, and by keeping
everyone safe, automobile insurance policies can also be kept low.